Pssst! Listen more actively!
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We talk a lot and listen little. That's precisely where the problem begins.
Everything around us feels more hectic lately. Katharina Krentz and I are also having conversations more and more often in passing.
I'm currently practicing conscious listening.
It's not easy for me.
As a creative free spirit, ideas flow freely from me as soon as something triggers me.
Perhaps it's also due to the constant rollercoaster ride of our startup.
A gift. And sometimes a curse.
First understand, then react.
I'm working on it.
Why active listening matters
Active listening is an art that not many people master.
One thing is clear to me: when people feel heard, a door opens. Decisions become easier. Conflicts become quieter.
Four micro-routines that help me
Check-in: one minute per person, without interruption.
Mirror: “I’ve heard that… Is that true?”
Consultation fast: ten minutes of asking questions only, no giving advice.
Arrival: before the conversation, close your eyes, take three deep breaths, set your intention. Go.
Found object: the “listening room”
Discovered today: Michael Spitzenberger's "listening room".
A moderated setting in the real world, with coffee and genuine listening. It's located in Munich's city center – and should be everywhere.
No fixing, no advice, just presence.
This fits perfectly with what we at Connecting Humans get up for every day: creating spaces where people come together, open up and feel connected.
Which of your next conversations needs to be listened to first – and only then answered?
Listening with Connecting Humans
We design formats in which teams practice active listening – accessible, practical, and effective. We call this social fitness: skills that strengthen connection, trust, and collaboration.
More information can be found on our website.
